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Choosing Slowness
Rest, resistance and living intentionally Slow living has come to me as an antidote for chasing dreams that are far removed from unfulfilled wishes I have desired to see born come to fruition. Chasing dreams can be a wonderfully nourishing exploration of the self. However, my argument lies in my private definition of 'chasing'. Our lifestyle choices are easy to possess with online shopping on Instagram and vision boards left on Pinterest, but when did chasing become possessio
Durga Menon
Apr 43 min read


Care without clocks: Women's Emotional Labor in the pandemic
The pandemic, as a universal experience, revives memories of collective loss, uncertainty, disorientation, and labor beyond one’s known capacity. The weight of restrictions and confinement in words like ‘lockdown,’ ‘containment zones’ and ‘curfews’ invariably births an internal dialogue within many of us. Limited space sparked independent thinking as most observed the failure of systems and societal institutions in the presence of these violent, unpredictable, contagious wave
Durga Menon
Mar 75 min read


The 'I' in Insight
The article explains some of the basic elements of psychodynamic psychotherapy to understand self-exploration.
Durga Menon
Feb 216 min read


Scubadiving into the Psyche
A metaphorical navigation of unconscious depth in psychodynamic psychotherapy ‘Scuba diving left me in touch with a myriad of emotions that remind me of what it means to engage with a psychic realm that seems unknown. While it is easy to stew in the list of unknown factors that can easily impact ‘how well’ or ‘how poorly’ a dive can go, the curiosity to explore left me dwelling on a few questions and qualms. I sat on the metaphorical shore of my mind, ‘an in-between’. The sti
Durga Menon
Feb 75 min read


Understanding personality: A Non-diagnostic portrayal
The formation of a personality comes from a myriad of influences. I experience this very construct as fluid though it is often bound by patterns that hold psychic dilemmas and the inner world of a person. The fluidity evolves into a distinct identity, as a person comes into their own as an individual in human society. The juxtaposition of qualities depicts how implicitly relational the making up of a personality is - it is a co-created product informed by the environment, obj
Durga Menon
Jan 174 min read


Online, Out of Touch
A reflective piece on psychotherapy and self-analysis in a loud algorithm driven world.
Durga Menon
Dec 22, 20253 min read


